Author: nancyvalko

“I Thought I Was a Useless Old Woman!”

nancyvalko aging, culture, nursing

I decided to become a nurse when I was five and received a Golden book titled “Nurse Nancy”.

I loved the stories about how this little girl helped the other children in the neighborhood by applying bandaids and comfort

I also had two wonderful grandmothers and so becoming a grandma became my other life goal. Since both were widowed and aging, I was able to help.

When I finally achieved my RN, I took my new degree to my father’s mother and she was delighted. “Think of all the people you will help!” I replied “Not as many as you have!’

She was stunned and said ” I am a useless old woman living alone and dependent on family” until I told her how much I admired her dedication to prayer.

Every since I was a little girl, my mother told my brothers and me that we were not to call Grandma between the hours of noon and three. As a devout Catholic, she dedicated those hours to praying for the poor souls in purgatory and for those people who had no one to pray for them. I told her that she helped many more people than I could as a nurse.

She burst into tears and said “I thought I was a useless old woman!”

CONCLUSION

I was honored to love and help care for both my grandmothers as they aged and eventually died. Both were examples to me as they helped whoever they could.

And I learned that being a nurse is more than just caring for the physical needs of a patient. The emotional and spiritual needs of patients-and family-are just as important.

Shocking New York Times Article Shows Planned Parenthood in Crisis

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In a shocking February 15, 2025, New York Times article titled A Crisis at Planned Parenthood: What to Know, author Katie Benner writes that “Planned Parenthood clinics around the country are facing complaints of substandard health care and poor morale amid chronic funding problems, a New York Times investigation found.” (Emphasis added)

She also writes that:

“While Planned Parenthood is synonymous with abortion, the organization also provides basic health care to millions of​ Americans who have few other options. Financial strains now undermine those services.

A New York Times review found that the clinics have been in decline for decades, undermined by structural and political headwinds and left to make do as national leaders prioritized the fight for abortion rights over finding a more sustainable way to fund health care. (Emphasis added)

Planned Parenthood’s health care operation has shrunk from a high of 5 million patients served across 900 clinics in the 1990s to 2.1 million patients and 600 clinics today, with staff members complaining that patient care is compromised by low salaries, chronic understaffing, high turnover, inadequate training and aging facilities.” (Emphasis added)

Katie Benner also writes: “Here are four takeaways from the reporting:

“Planned Parenthood may need structural reform

Few people outside the organization understand that there is a significant difference between the Planned Parenthood Federation of America, the national office that most people associate with the brand, and the 49 Planned Parenthood affiliates located across the country. The national office does not provide health care. Rather, it funds legal, political, and public opinion work that supports abortion rights. The clinics are run by the affiliates, which are stand-alone nonprofit organizations.

The affiliates have been buffeted for years by political challenges that hurt their ability to raise the money necessary to cover procedures that patients cannot afford.

For the past two decades, leaders say they had to prioritize the fight for abortion rights over clinics because the political fight was fundamental to the organization’s ability to operate. They argue that the organization managed to deliver quality health care, despite increasing financial constraints. Yet clinics have degraded over time.” (All emphasis added)

Clinics nationwide face financial problems

“While affiliates in more liberal states like New York and California have had an easier time fund-raising than their counterparts in states with a strong anti-abortion sentiment, rising health care costs and the lingering effects of the pandemic have taken a financial toll on all clinics. Planned Parenthood of Greater New York — one of the few places where abortion is still legal up to 24 weeks — said that a budget shortfall would force it to restrict later-term abortion services, effectively implementing a 20-week abortion ban. (All emphasis added)

Planned Parenthood of Northern California made a hard funding choice “last March when it ended a prenatal care program that served 200 to 250 low-income women a month. And Planned Parenthood of Northern New England expects to run an $8 million deficit over the next three years.

While affiliates in more liberal states like New York and California have had an easier time fund-raising financial toll on all clinics. Planned Parenthood of Greater New York — one of the few places where abortion is still legal up to 24 weeks — said that a budget shortfall would force it to restrict later term abortion services, effectively implementing a 20-week abortion ban.

Planned Parenthood of Northern California made a hard funding choice last March when it ended a prenatal care program that served 200 to 250 low-income women a month. And Planned Parenthood of Northern New England expects to run an $8 million deficit over the next three years.” (All emphasis added)

Patients have felt the effects

“Patients and employees said that clinics are operating like “ a conveyor belt” for patients, leading to botched IUD placements and abortions, patients prepped for the wrong procedures, and other errors, according to legal filings, complaints and interviews. (All emphasis added)

Planned Parenthood has been accused of improperly implanting a birth control device and causing nerve damage; inserting an IUD in a woman who was four months pregnant, and failing to upload sexually transmitted infection test results into charts, leading patients to wrongly believe that their results were negative.”

Employees are feeling the pressure

“Employees said there has been constant pressure to more than double the number of patients seen from the present 2.1 million, to help bring in more revenues, with management asking staff to see more than four patients an hour. That is in line with a trend in health care, widely unpopular with both patients and doctors, to keep primary care visits to about 15 minutes. But clinic staff members said that they needed more than 10 to 15 minutes to care for patients who often face literacy and language barriers or face social ills like housing insecurity, abuse and poverty.

Staff members who have decried the conditions are beginning to unionize to push back on demands that they say undermine Planned Parenthood’s mission.”

CONCLUSION

Although abortion is supposed to be only about a woman’s right to choose, the repercussions for all involved are devastating. Abortion is not the answer and we all need to offer help and support to desperate women and their families.

Trump Pardons 23 Pro-Life Activists the Day before the March for Life

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In a January 23, 2025 article in the New York Post titled “Trump pardons ‘peaceful’ pro-lifers imprisoned for protesting outside abortion clinics” states:

” President Trump pardoned nearly two dozen pro-life activists Thursday who were convicted under a federal law of illegally trying to block abortion clinic entrances or otherwise keep women from undergoing the procedure.

The pardons, Trump said in the Oval Office, will go to 23 “peaceful protestors” who were prosecuted under the Biden administration. He did not reveal the names of those who will be pardoned. 

“Twenty-three people were prosecuted who should not have been prosecuted. Many of them are elderly people. They should not have been prosecuted,” the president said. “This is a great honor to sign this.”

The Freedom of Access to Clinic Entrances (FACE) Act, enacted in 1994 by former President Bill Clinton, prohibits use of physical force, threat of physical force, or physical obstruction to injure, intimidate or otherwise interfere with “any class of persons [in] obtaining or providing reproductive health services.”

The law also has the same stipulations allowing free access to places of worship — but conservatives say Democratic administrations have been more interested in prosecuting abortion clinic obstruction.”

MY FIRST TIME AT AN ABORTION CLINIC

I was a new nurse when Roe v Wade legalized abortion.

I was shocked and saddened while my other medical colleagues thought this was great.

“What would you do if you found out you were pregnant?”, they asked.
I told them I would have the baby and consider adoption. They thought that was crazy.

I later joined the St. Lous Archdiocese Pro-Life Commitee, the first in the US, and donated items to the Birthright organization that offers “free, confidential resources to any woman regardless of age, race, circumstances, religion, marital status or financial situation.”

In 1987, I was invited to join a group holding signs outside the Planned Parenthood Clinic in St. Louis offering information and help to the women entering. I was nervous walking with my then 2-year-old daughter but there were strict rules about staying on the sidewalk and I was relieved to see the signs with phone numbers and offers to help the women entering the clinic.

But suddenly my 2-year-old daughter dropped my hand and ran to play on the grass in front of the clinic. I panicked, picking her up and running to the sidewalk. I had heard that we could be arrested. Luckily, we weren’t.

CONCLUSION

I am glad President Trump pardoned those peaceful pro-life people but being pro-life is about more than picketing.

Every pro-life person I know is also a person who reaches out to anyone in need.

I know I have been blessed by helping single moms in difficult circumstances, families caring for children with disabilities, people considering suicide, women regretting their abortion, older people facing their impending death, and others.

Being pro-life is not just about ending the horror of legalized abortion but rather about cherishing and caring for all lives!

That is why I am so proud of the National Association of Pro-life Nurses’ button that simply says “I care”.

Hawaii Doctor Investigated for Assisted Suicide Murder

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A January 8, 2025 news article in the Hawaii Free Press titled “Hawaii Doctor under Investigation for Murder in Woman’s Assisted Suicide Death” reveals that authorities are investigating a doctor for murder after police say he administered assisted suicide drugs to a woman.

Under Hawaii’s assisted suicide law passed in 2018, patients who have been approved for “assisted death” are required to self-administer the lethal dose of drugs.

The newspaper states:

“In this case, the 73-year-old doctor allegedly broke the law and assisted his 88-year-old patient in taking the lethal medication on October 9, 2024. According to the police report, at one point the woman was starting to choke and motioned for the doctor to stop — but he continued, causing her death. After an autopsy, the Medical Examiner’s Office ruled the death a homicide. According to Island News, the doctor is being investigated for second-degree murder, but as of yet no charges have been filed.” (All emphasis added)

In his January 4, 2025 Medical Futility blog titled “MAID Noncompliance Leads to Murder Investigation, assisted suicide supporter Thaddeus Pope, JD.Phd. states:

“All U.S. MAID laws require that the patient self-administer the medications (typically DDMA-Ph). When someone else administers the medications, that is not MAID. Instead, that is assisted suicide which remains criminally prohibited in all U.S. jurisdictions including those that permit MAID. ” (Emphasis added)

CONCLUSION

A report released in February 2024 showed that 166 people had died by assisted suicide in Hawaii since its legalization in 2018. According to KTVZ, this is the first homicide investigation related to the OCOCA.

Suicide- medically assisted or not- is never a death with dignity for anyone!

Vindication: The Great Barrington Declaration

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President-elect Donald Trump has just nominated Dr. Jay Bhattacharya, a Stanford professor and an outspoken critic of Covid lockdowns as well as the co-author of The Great Barrington Declaration, to head the National Institutes of Health. I am delighted, especially since I wrote a March 2021 blog titled “Is it possible that there is a light at the end of the Covid tunnel?”

Here are some excerpts from my 2021 blog:

“My husband and I just returned from a trip to Florida where we were happily surprised to find the closest place to normal since the Covid 19 pandemic started. Everyone wore masks (except one young man we saw at a distance) and everyone was careful about social distancing. Hand sanitizers were everywhere.

Best of all, people seemed happy and we saw very few stores closed.

When we returned home, we both finally received the first of our 2 Covid 19 vaccination doses.

IS FLORIDA A HARBINGER OF GOOD NEWS?

Florida was among the last states to go into lockdown and one of the first states to ease restrictions.Florida’s Governor Ron DeSantis was vilified by many in the media for adopting something similar to Sweden’s strategy of protecting the vulnerable while keeping businesses and schools open but a year after the pandemic hit the US, that strategy seems to be working.

Despite having the second largest number of elderly people by state, Florida’s Covid death rate numbers are better than New York’s and California’s. And, unlike so many other states, Florida’s economy is thriving.

Now, Governor Abbott of Texas and Governor Reeves of Mississippi have announced that they would be lifting their states’ mask mandates and rolling back many of their Covid-19 health mandates.”

WHAT HAPPENED?

It has been almost a year since the U.S. went on lockdown for Covid 19 when President Trump declared Covid 19 a national emergency on March 13, 2020.

At first, the lockdown was only supposed to be for a few weeks to “flatten the curve” of infections and prevent hospitals from being overwhelmed by Covid patients.

However, as the lockdowns wore on for months, some doctors and other experts started warning about the emotional and health damage occurring.

Although it received little media notice, a May 19, 2020 letter titled “600 Physicians Say Lockdowns Are A ‘Mass Casualty Incident’” was sent to President Trump that detailed the physical and mental impact of the lockdown in the US due to Covid 19, calling it a “mass casualty incident” with “exponentially growing negative health consequences” to millions of non-COVID patients. 

The doctors’ letter also stated that: “Keeping schools and universities closed is incalculably detrimental for children, teenager and young adults for decades to come.”

Then on October 4, 2020, the Great Barrington Declaration was written and released and eventually signed by thousands of doctors and experts from around the world. The Declaration encouraged governments to lift lockdown restrictions on young and healthy people while focusing protection measures on the elderly, stating:

“Current lockdown policies are producing devastating effects on short and long-term public health. The results (to name a few) include lower childhood vaccination rates, worsening cardiovascular disease outcomes, fewer cancer screenings and deteriorating mental health – leading to greater excess mortality in years to come, with the working class and younger members of society carrying the heaviest burden. Keeping students out of school is a grave injustice. “

CONCLUSION

Now it is 4 years since the Covid pandemic started and we can see that Dr. Jay Bhattacharya and the other medical and public health scientists, medical practitioners, etc. who signed the Great Barrington Declaration were right, despite all the criticism from the media and others.

I personally hope that Dr. Jay Bhattacharya is confirmed as head of the National Institutes of Health.

One In Four Brain Injury Patients Who Appear Unresponsive Respond Covertly

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Back in May, I wrote the blog “New Study: Brain-injured patients who died after life support ended may have recovered” about a 7 1/2 year study of 1392 traumatic brain injury patients in ICU at 18 US trauma centers.

The researchers designed a mathematical model to calculate the likelihood that life-sustaining treatment would be discontinued “based on demographic, socioeconomic factor and injury characteristics” and then “paired patients continuing on life-sustaining treatment to individuals with similar moded scores but for whom life-sustaining treatment was stopped.”

They found that of the survivors who did not have life-sustaining treatment withdrawn, “more than 40% recovered at least some independence.” (Emphasis added)

This led one researcher to conclude that:

““Predicting who will recover following severe traumatic brain injury, and to what degree, can be challenging. Yet, families are often asked to make decisions about continuing or withdrawing life support, such as mechanical breathing, within just 72 hours of the injury,” Bodien said.

“This decision is based largely on whether the clinical team believes that recovery is possible,” she added. “It is unknown whether some people who died because life support was discontinued could have survived and recovered had life support been continued.” (All emphasis added)

NEW STUDY

Now a newer study, published in August, states that one in Four Brain Injury Patients Who Appear Unresponsive Respond Covertly | MedPage Today, finding that functional MRI and EEG tests can detect awareness in coma or vegetative states.

The authors explain that:

“Cognitive-motor dissociation — a phenomenon that occurs when patients who appear unresponsive perform cognitive tasks that can be detected on functional MRI (fMRI) or electroencephalography (EEG) — occurred in one in four people with severe brain injury, a prospective cohort study found.”

The study evaluated 241 unresponsive patients with brain injury who were given verbal commands, such as to imagine playing tennis or opening and closing their hands.

Of these, 60 patients (25%) repeatedly showed brain activation on fMRI or EEG indicating they were covertly following instructions, reported Nicholas Schiff, MD, of Weill Cornell Medicine in New York City, and co-authors in the 

Cognitive-motor dissociation was associated with younger age, longer time since injury, and brain trauma as an etiologic factor. In total, 11 patients with cognitive-motor dissociation were assessed with fMRI only, 13 were assessed with EEG only, and 36 with both techniques.

“This research shows that a substantial fraction of apparently unresponsive, severely brain-injured persons are aware and can engage in sustained cognitive activity,” Schiff told MedPage Today. These findings importantly point to the need to establish infrastructure to evaluate patients and to begin efforts to test possible therapies to help them.” (All emphasis added)

CONCLUSION

I have worked with brain-injured patients for decades both as a nurse and as a volunteer and I personally saw many amazing recoveries or improvements despite dire predictions and/or recommendations of life support removal.

One of the most amazing cases was a woman with disabilities whose husband wanted to remove life support as the doctors recommended.

As she personally told me, she frantically tried to move her hands to protest but her gestures were seen as seizures and she was given sedatives.

She persisted until finally, one nurse said she might be trying to tell us something and gave her a paper and pencil.

The patient wrote d-i-v-o-r-c-e.

She not only lived but became active in the disability community fighting assisted suicide!

Shocking Article in Academic Medicine: Helping Patients Die: Implementation of a Residency Curriculum in Medical Aid in Dying

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“First, do no harm” is attributed to Hippocrates and is one of the principal precepts of bioethics that all healthcare providers are (or were) taught in school and is a fundamental principle throughout the world.

But today,  the Hippocratic Oath, the oldest and most widely known treatise on medical ethics that forbade actions such as abortion and euthanasia that medical students routinely took upon graduation, has now been revised or dropped at many medical schools.

So we should not be surprised that we now have an article in the August issue of Academic Medicine (lww.com) titled Helping Patients Die: Implementation of a Residency Curriculum in Medical Aid in Dying by Spielvogel, Ryan MD, MS; Schewe, Savannah MD

The authors state the need for such a program is because:

“As more states legalize medical aid in dying (MAID), there is an ever-increasing need of physicians trained in this type of end-of-life care. However, resident curricula in MAID have not been previously reported or assessed. The authors describe a residency curriculum in MAID and evaluate the resident outcomes of this program.” (Emphasis added)

They describe the program they started in California:

“Since 2018, the Sutter Family Medicine Residency Program in California has offered training in MAID to its residents. Residents attend lectures, evaluate patients for MAID, write prescriptions for aid-in-dying medications, and attend the planned deaths of their patients if desired. In February 2023, an anonymous branching survey was sent to graduates of the program from 2019 to 2022 to evaluate residency graduation year, receipt of MAID training, currently practicing MAID, how rewarding MAID is compared with other clinical responsibilities, how stressful MAID is compared with other clinical responsibilities, comfort discussing MAID with colleagues, comfort discussing end-of-life care generally, personal view of MAID as a practice, and works where MAID is permitted.”

RESULTS OF THE SURVEY

“The authors surveyed 28 graduates and collected data from 21 former residents (response rate, 75%). Of these 21 former residents, 17 (81%) reported having opted to receive training in MAID during residency. Of the 12 residents who received training and were currently practicing in a location that allowed MAID, 7 (58%) were still practicing aid-in-dying, and of these 7 residents, 5 (71%) reported that their aid-in-dying work was more rewarding than their other clinical responsibilities.” (Emphasis added)

The authors of this study conclude that there is:

“promising preliminary evidence that MAID training in residency may be an effective strategy in the long term at closing the suspected patient access gap that purportedly exists. This preliminary evidence can be inferred by the fact that 7 of the 21 responding graduates (33%) in this study reported actively practicing MAID compared with the 30 of approximately 5,000 physicians (approximately 0.6%) practicing MAID group-wide at the large institution described above.” (All emphasis added)

CONCLUSION

Ominously, an August Gallup poll titled ” Most Americans Favor Legal Euthanasia ” stated that ” 71% of Americans polled “believe doctors should be ‘allowed by law to end the patient’s life by some painless means if the patient and his or her family request it’.”

That is a change from polling in 1950 showing only 36% support for “ending a patient’s life through painless means”. (All emphasis added)

Tragically, too many Americans are falling for the lie that it is better to be made dead than disabled or dying. Assisted suicide laws are tragically wrong and I have personally testified against them. It’s not about politics. It’s about medical ethics and the need for trust in both our healthcare system and our healthcare providers.

When Food and Water Withdrawal is Recommended to Hasten Death

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Recently, I was contacted by a man who was concerned about hospice care for his mother.

He wrote:

“I spoke to one hospice service that was recommended and asked about AHN (artificial hydration and nutrition) and I was basically told that if my mother became unconscious, they would not attempt to provide AHN. My mother has dementia and we’ve had a few scares where we were unsure she would recover. I’d like to understand what guideline I should expect the hospice to follow and whether hospice is even worth considering. Are there prescriptive standards of care that I can reference or could you tell me basically what routine care look like?”

I wrote back that I understood his concerns, especially since I recently lost a brother with dementia, diabetes and Crohn’;s disease after a second fall down stairs. H had trouble eating so the doctors recommended a feeding tube.

Unfortunately, a person from palliative care told my sister-in-law that he would not improve so she decided to refuse a feeding tube.

I told her that newer feeding tubes were more comfortable, could make him feel better and were worth a try but she rejected this. She said my brother told her he would not want to I’ve if he developed dementia- like our mother.

It took 4 long days for him to die.

I also told him that I have been writing about this problems for years, including my 2018 blot “‘Living Wills’ to Prevent Spoon Feeding at https://nancyvalko.com/?s=living+wills+to+prevent+spoon+feeding

I have seen the deterioration of medical ethics over 50 years as a nurse from requiring life-sustaining treatment unless it was medically futile or excessively burdensome to whatever is legal.

I would recommend to you two resources from the Healthcare Advocacy and Leadership Organization (HALO):

1, “The Food and Water Dilemma” at https://halovoice.org/wp-content/uploads/5.20.21-Making-a-Difference-8.pdf

2. “Making a Difference: A Guide for Defending the Medically Vulnerable” at https://halovoice.org/wp-content/uploads/5.20.21-Making-a-Difference-8.pdf

CONCLUSION

I have worked in hospice, critical care, etc. for decades and I was glad to be able to care for my patients, my mother and others so that they had dignity, comfort and emotional support at the end of life.

I hope these resources from HALO can help bring vital information, peace and comfort to others and their families.

Great News: Governor Finally Vetoes Delaware Assisted Suicide Bill

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In an excellent article in the Christian Post on June 28, 2024, reporter Samantha Kamman reported:

““A national coalition of pro-life nurses (NAPN, the National Association of Pro-life Nurses) says they “will not comply” with Delaware’s assisted suicide bill that passed in the Senate Tuesday as the state’s lone Catholic diocese is calling on people of faith to urge Democratic Gov. John Carney to veto the legislation. “

Ms Kamman explains that:

“H.B. 140 passed in the Senate with an 11-10 vote and will become law unless Carney vetoes it. Under the proposed law, adult patients who are “terminally ill” or have received the prognosis that they have six months or less to live can request or self-administer drugs to hasten their deaths.

Both the individual’s attending physician or attending advanced practice registered nurse (APRN) and a consulting physician or APRN must agree on the patient’s condition and decision-making capacity. Two waiting periods must pass before the patient can receive the drugs to end their life, and medical professionals who prescribe the medication must provide the patient the opportunity to rescind the request to kill themselves. 

The law would also grant immunity to medical professionals who offer life-ending drugs to patients, so long as they are “acting in good faith and in accordance with generally accepted health-care standards under this Act.” As the bill states, those “acting with negligence, recklessness, or intentional misconduct do not have criminal or civil immunity.” (All emphasis added)”

Ms. Kamman reported NAPN’s response:

“The National Association of Pro-Life Nurses, which has advocated against assisted suicide legislation for over 30 years, condemned the bill, calling it a “moral catastrophe that corrupts the very soul of healthcare.”

Marie Ashby, NAPN’s executive director, argued in a statement to The Christian Post that the bill “preys” on “the desperate and devalues the disadvantaged,” adding that it offers “poison as a perverse form of mercy” to people society deems “inconvenient.”

“Legitimate healthcare heals; it doesn’t kill,” Ashby added. “This law perverts our profession’s sacred duty, turning nurses from guardians of life into agents of death. We will not be silent. We will not comply.”

NAPN President Dorothy Kane contends, “Delaware has chosen death over dignity, despair over hope.” (All emphasis added)

Conclusion-Great News

On September 20, 2024, Delaware Governor Johns Carey vetoed HB 140, saying that:

“As I have shared consistently, I am simply not comfortable letting this piece of legislation become law. For the reasons set forth above, I am hereby vetoing House Bill 140 with House Amendment 1 by returning it to the House of Representatives without my signature.” (Emphasis added)

“Jessica Rodgers, Coalitions Director for the Patients’ Rights Action Fund told LifeNews she was delighted by the news.

“Thanks to the tireless efforts of Delaware advocates who have shown up year after year after year, assisted suicide will not be coming to their state. I have been amazed and humbled at the work of these doctors, nurses, disability rights advocates, and all who care for their vulnerable neighbors,” she said. “Time and again when the call was put out to take action, they answered. And you answered- you called and emailed Governor Carney’s office and you made the difference.”

And just in time!

Gallup Poll: Most Americans Favor Legal Euthanasia

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A shocking Gallup poll titled Most Americans Favor Legal Euthanasia published on August 2, 2024, stated that 71% of Americans polled “believe doctors should be ‘allowed by law to end the patient’s life by some painless means if the patient and his or her family request it’.”

and

“Sixty-six percent of Americans believe doctors should ‘be allowed by law to assist the patient to commit suicide’” for terminal patients living in severe pain who request it.”

That is a change from polling in 1950 showing only 36% support for “ending a patient’s life through painless means”. (All emphasis added)

However, as Gallup reports,:

” Most U.S. subgroups are somewhat more inclined to support doctors ending patients’ lives through painless means than to agree with doctors assisting patients in dying by suicide. Among the exceptions are Democrats and women, who are about equally likely to say both euthanasia and doctor-assisted suicide should be legal. Democrats (79%) are more likely than Republicans (61%) or independents (72%) to favor legal euthanasia.” (Emphasis added)

The Perceived Morality of Doctor-Assisted Suicide

Gallup says that:

“Americans’ feelings on the morality of doctor-assisted suicide are more mixed than their views on its legality, with a slim majority (53%) agreeing that the procedure is morally acceptable and 40% calling it morally wrong. More than half of Americans have considered doctor-assisted suicide as morally acceptable since 2014. In contrast, from 2001 to 2013, this sentiment was generally at or below 50%.” and that “Religiosity has the most significant impact on one’s perceptions of morality regarding this question.”

Not surprisingly, Gallup reports that “Americans in regions allowing doctor-assisted suicide are also among the most likely to say it is moral.” (All emphasis added)

CONCLUSION

Tragically, so many Americans are falling for the lie that it is better to be made dead than disabled or dying. Assisted suicide laws are tragically wrong and I have personally testified against them. It’s not about politics. It’s about medical ethics and trust in our healthcare system.

For decades, I have personally and professionally cared for many patients, friends, and relatives who were disabled or dying- either at home or in a health facility.

Pain can be controlled without killing the patient but, just as important, is helping both the patient’s and family’s emotional distress and fears.

I ask two questions: what do you want and what are you afraid of?

With patients, fear of a terrible death or being a burden on the family are usually the biggest fears. With families, fear of not being able to care for their loved ones adequately can be overwhelming. Luckily, there are many options and services available. Families and friends also need support and encouragement. Loneliness can be devasting and laughter can be therapeutic for everyone.

I have found that when patients and their relatives are allowed to talk honestly and get the support they need, relationships and old regrets can mended. A good death is possible.

I feel blessed as a nurse to witness the healing power of caring.

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